M: Guided by memory you have been
pursuing the pleasant and shunning the unpleasant. Have you
succeeded?
Q: No, I have not. The pleasant does
not last. Pain sets in again.
M: Which pain?
Q: The desire for pleasure, the fear of
pain, both are states of distress. Is there a state of unalloyed
pleasure?
M: Every pleasure, physical or mental,
needs an instrument. Both the physical and mental instruments are
material, they get tired and worn out. The pleasure they yield is
necessarily limited in intensity and duration. Pain is the background
of all your pleasures. You want them because you suffer. On the other
hand, the very search for pleasure is the cause of pain. It is a
vicious circle.
*
M: My experience is that everything is
bliss. But the desire for bliss creates pain. Thus bliss becomes the
seed of pain. The entire universe of pain is born of desire. Give up
the desire for pleasure and you will not even know what is pain.
Q: Why should pleasure be the seed of
pain?
M: Because for the sake of pleasure you
are committing many sins. And the fruits of sin are suffering and
death.
*
M: Through desire you have created the
world with its pains and pleasures.
Q: Must it be also painful?
M: What else? By its very nature
pleasure is limited and transitory. Out of pain desire is born, in
pain it seeks fulfilment, and it ends in the pain of frustration and
despair. Pain is the background of pleasure, all seeking of pleasure
is born in pain and ends in pain.
*
Souls take whatever pleasure they
desire and pay for them in tears.
*
Q: I find that I am totally motivated
by desire for pleasure and fear of pain. However noble my desire and
justified my fear, pleasure and pain are the two poles between which
my life oscillates.
M: Go to the source of both pain and
pleasure, of desire and fear. Observe, investigate, try to
understand.
Q: Desire and fear both are feelings
caused by physical or mental factors. They are there, easily
observable. But why are they there? Why do l desire pleasure and fear
pain?
M: Pleasure and pain are states of
mind. As long as you think you are the mind, or rather, the body-
mind, you are bound to raise such questions.
Q: And when I realise that I am not the
body, shall I be free from desire and fear?
M: As long as there is a body and a
mind to protect the body, attractions and repulsions will operate.
They will be there, out in the field of events, but will not concern
you. The focus of your attention will be elsewhere. You will not be
distracted.
*
M: You can only cease to be -- as you
seem to be now. There is nothing cruel in what I say. To wake up a
man from a nightmare is compassion. You came here because you are in
pain, and all I say is: wake up, know yourself, be yourself. The end
of pain lies not in pleasure. When you realise that you are beyond
both pain and pleasure, aloof and unassailable, then the pursuit of
happiness ceases and the resultant sorrow too. For pain aims at
pleasure and pleasure ends in pain, relentlessly.
Q: In the ultimate state there can be
no happiness?
M: Nor sorrow. Only freedom. Happiness
depends on something or other and can be lost; freedom from everything depends on nothing and
cannot be lost. Freedom from sorrow has no cause and, therefore,
cannot be destroyed. realise that freedom.
*
M: Pain and pleasure happen, but pain
is the price of pleasure, pleasure is the reward of pain. In life too
you often please by hurting and hurt by pleasing. To know that pain
and pleasure are one is peace.
Q: All this is very interesting, no
doubt, but my goal is more simple. I want more pleasure and less pain
in life. What am I to do?
M: As long as there is consciousness,
there must be pleasure and pain. It is in the nature of the 'I am',
of consciousness, to identify itself with the opposites.
Q: Then of what use is all this to me?
It does not satisfy.
M: Who are you, who is unsatisfied?
Q: I am, the pain-pleasure man.
M: Pain and pleasure are both ananda
(bliss). Here I am sitting in front of you and telling you -- from my
own immediate and unchanging experience -- pain and pleasure are the
crests and valleys of the waves in the ocean of bliss. Deep down
there is utter fullness.
Q: Is your experience constant?
M: It is timeless and changeless.
Q: All I know is desire for pleasure
and fear of pain.
M: That is what you think about
yourself. Stop it. If you cannot break a habit all at once, consider
the familiar way of thinking and see its falseness. Questioning the
habitual is the duty of the mind. What the mind created, the mind must
destroy. Or realise that there is no desire outside the mind and stay out.
*
M: Nature is neither pleasant nor
painful. It is all intelligence and beauty. Pain and pleasure are in
the mind. Change your scale of values and all will change. Pleasure
and pain are mere disturbances of the senses; treat them equally and
there will be only bliss.
*
If you look at yourself in your moments
of pleasure or pain, you will invariably find that it is not the thing in itself that is pleasant or
painful, but the situation of which it is a part. Pleasure lies in
the relationship between the enjoyer and the enjoyed. And the essence
of it is acceptance. Whatever may be the situation, if it is
acceptable, it is pleasant. If it is not acceptable, it is painful.
What makes it acceptable is not important; the cause may be physical,
or psychological, or untraceable; acceptance is the decisive factor.
Obversely, suffering is due to non-acceptance.
Q: Pain is not acceptable.
M: Why not? Did you ever try? Do try
and you will find in pain a joy which pleasure cannot yield, for the
simple reason that acceptance of pain takes you much deeper than
pleasure does. The personal self by its very nature is constantly
pursuing pleasure and avoiding pain. The ending of this pattern is
the ending of the self. The ending of the self with its desires and
fears enables you to return to your real nature, the source of all
happiness and peace. The perennial desire for pleasure is the
reflection of the timeless harmony within. It is an observable fact
that one becomes self- conscious only when caught in the conflict
between pleasure and pain, which demands choice and decision. It is
this clash between desire and fear that causes anger, which is the
great destroyer of sanity in life. When pain is accepted for what it
is, a lesson and a warning, and deeply looked into and heeded, the
separation between pain and pleasure breaks down, both become
experience -- painful when resisted, joyful when accepted.
Q: Do you advise shunning pleasure and
pursuing pain?
M: No, nor pursuing pleasure and
shunning pain. Accept both as they come, enjoy both while they last,
let them go, as they must.
Q: How can I possibly enjoy pain?
Physical pain calls for action.
M: Of course. And so does Mental. The
bliss is in the awareness of it, in not shrinking, or in any way
turning away from it. All happiness comes from awareness. The more we
are conscious, the deeper the joy. Acceptance of pain,
non-resistance, courage and endurance -- these open deep and
perennial sources of real happiness, true bliss.
Q: Why should pain be more effective
than pleasure?
M: Pleasure is readily accepted, while
all the powers of the self reject pain. As the acceptance of pain is
the denial of the self, and the self stands in the way of true
happiness, the wholehearted acceptance of pain releases the springs
of happiness.
Q: Does the acceptance of suffering act
the same way?
M: The fact of pain is easily brought
within the focus of awareness. With suffering it is not that simple.
To focus suffering is not enough, for mental life, as we know it, is
one continuous stream of suffering. To reach the deeper layers of
suffering you must go to its roots and uncover their vast underground
network, where fear and desire are closely interwoven and the
currents of life's energy oppose, obstruct and destroy each other.
*
Q: My question is not yet fully
answered: Why are man's pleasures destructive? Why does he find so
much pleasure in destruction? Life's concern lies in protection,
perpetuation and expansion of itself. In this it is guided by pain
and pleasure. At what point do they become destructive?
M: When the mind takes over, remembers
and anticipates, it exaggerates, it distorts, it overlooks. The past
is projected into future and the future betrays the expectations. The
organs of sensation and action are stimulated beyond capacity and
they inevitably break down. The objects of pleasure cannot yield what
is expected of them and get worn out, or destroyed, by misuse. It
results in excess of pain where pleasure was looked for.
Q: We destroy not only ourselves, but
others too!
M: Naturally, selfishness is always
destructive. Desire and fear, both are self-centred states. Between
desire and fear anger arises, with anger hatred, with hatred passion
for destruction. War is hatred in action, organised and equipped with
all the instruments of death.
*
M: There is only life. There is nobody
who lives a life.
Q: That we understand, yet constantly
we make attempts to live our lives instead of just living. Making
plans for the future seems to be an inveterate habit with us.
M: Whether you plan or don't, life goes
on. But in life itself a little whorl arises in the mind, which
indulges in fantasies and imagines itself dominating and controlling
life. Life itself is desireless. But the false self wants to continue --
pleasantly. Therefore it is always engaged in ensuring one's
continuity. Life is unafraid and free.
*
M: I know myself as I am -- timeless,
spaceless, causeless. You happen not to know, being engrossed as you
are in other things.
Q: Why am I so engrossed?
M: Because you are interested.
Q: What makes me interested?
M: Fear of pain, desire for pleasure.
Pleasant is the ending of pain and painful the end of pleasure. They
just rotate in endless succession. Investigate the vicious circle
till you find yourself beyond it.
*
Q: As long as there are pain and
pleasure, one is bound to be interested.
M: And as long as one is conscious,
there will be pain and pleasure. You cannot fight pain and pleasure
on the level of consciousness. To go beyond them you must go beyond
consciousness, which is possible only when you look at consciousness
as something that happens to you and not in you, as something
external, alien, superimposed. Then, suddenly you are free of
consciousness, really alone, with nothing to intrude. And that is
your true state. Consciousness is an itching rash that makes you
scratch. Of course, you cannot step out of consciousness for the very
idea of stepping out is in consciousness. But if you learn to look at
your consciousness as a sort of fever, personal and private, in which
you are enclosed like a chick in its shell, out of this very attitude
will come the crisis which will break the shell.
Q: Buddha said that life is suffering.
M: He must have meant that all
consciousness is painful, which is obvious.
*
M: All you need is already within you,
only you must approach your self with reverence and love. Self-condemnation and self-distrust are
grievous errors. Your constant flight from pain and search for
pleasure is a sign of love you bear for your self, all I plead with
you is this: make love of your self perfect. Deny yourself nothing --
glue your self infinity and eternity and discover that you do not
need them; you are beyond.
*
Q: I know what prevents -- my ego.
M: Then get busy with your ego -- leave
me alone. As long as you are locked up within your mind, my state is
beyond your grasp.
Q: I find I have no more questions to
ask.
M: Were you really at war with your
ego, you would have put many more questions. You are short of
questions because you are not really interested. At present you are
moved by the pleasure-pain principle which is the ego. You are going
along with the ego, you are not fighting it. You are not even aware
how totally you are swayed by personal considerations. A man should
always revolt against himself, for the ego, like a crooked mirror,
narrows down and distorts. It is the worst of all the tyrants, it
dominates you absolutely.
Q: When there is no ‘I’ who is
free?
M: The world is free of a mighty
nuisance. Good enough.
*
Q: Is pleasure always wrong?
M: The right state and use of the body
and the mind are intensely pleasant. It is the search for pleasure
that is wrong. Do not try to make yourself happy, rather question
your very search for happiness. It is because you are not happy that
you want to be happy. Find out why you are unhappy. Because you are
not happy you seek happiness in pleasure; pleasure brings in pain and
therefore you call it worldly; you then long for some other pleasure,
without pain, which you call divine. In reality, pleasure is but a
respite from pain. Happiness is both worldly and unworldly, within
and beyond all that happens. Make no distinction, don’t separate
the inseparable and do not alienate yourself from life.
*
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